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Some boys were interested in establishing friendly and warm relationships with me. They would write email messages expressing thanks for mail or for the class:
Boys Wrote About FamilySample Messages
Boys Confirmed Gender Stereotypes
Sample MessagesSome topics boys chose to write about confirmed gender stereotypes: Boys wrote more about things and events than people and feelings.
Christi
Setting Up and Using My Modem at Home First Alice and I went to her house and got the software. Then we went to my house and Alice installed my modem and software. Next we tried it out and it worked! Hooray! That night I taught my brother how to get into gopher and how to use Veronica. We found out a little bit about comics. The next day I taught Amanda how to use the modem. We looked up dogs. Learned how to write to Alice using ASU mail. I read my mail from home. I can also write to the other kids in my class. At home, with my modem, I am going to write to Alice in the summer. And I am going to use Veronica and Gopher to explore more about dogs, Alaska, Charleston (South Carolina) where I was born, and other states. Christi. (1994, July). Setting up and using my modem from home. Kids Internet Workshop News, Vol.1, No.1, 6 Girls Wrote About Computers and CommunicationsSample MessagesSeveral examples of girls using technical language follow:
Girls Confirmed Gender StereotypesSample Messages
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| Sample daily log. | Sample navigation log. |
Daily Log and Self-Evaluation
| Name: | Date: |
Today, I did the following in our Telecommunications Workshop:
I learned:
Some questions I'd still like to answer are:
How I plan to find answers to my questions:
Navigation Map
| Name: | Date: |
Today, I discovered:
I followed this route:
Process Notes:
Profile One
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Two weeks into our second workshop, Janet is intent on drawing a map of Georgia. She is using Kid Pix (1991), one of her favorite programs. As she concentrates on drawing her map, she begins to think of her forthcoming trip to Georgia to visit her older brothers and sisters. She suddenly comes to me and asks if it's okay for her to write another letter on email. I respect her request and she returns immediately to her computer, closing Kid Pix (1991) and opening her email account. Later I discover she has written to me:
Dear Alice, the reason I am going to see my big brotheer Jason and my big brother Lee and my big sister NIKI is because last august my Dad died and so we are al going to get togheras a fami9ly even though I can't wait in a way I feel I don't want to go?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! Love, Janet P.S. Don't tell !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!(Note: Children's spelling is used in all Profiles)
Having sent her message and having verbalized some of her confusion about the death of her father, she returns to Kid Pix and happily completes her map of Georgia. I respond to her message:
Dear Janet, Thanks for sending me that special email message about your visit with your older siblings. I can understand that you may be feeling a little hesitant about the visit because it will seem strange to have your family together and not have your Dad there. I have the same feelings sometimes. My mother died about six years ago and I always miss her the most when the whole family is together. It seems she should be there too and that makes me sad. It was really brave of you to share these feelings with me. I won't tell anyone. I promise!
Love, Alice
The correspondence continues briefly:
Dear Alice,
Have a great day and thanks for the suppoort!
Love, Janet
Dear Janet, I hope my letter helped you to feel that you were not alone with your feelings. I felt honored that you wrote me.
Love, Alice
Profile Two
Click here to see sample writing.Christi is shy and beautiful. She peers out at the computer lab
through dark
eyes and long lashes, but doesn't speak. I stand to the side of the
lab and
watch Christi and the other children as they inspect the computers,
the printer,
and the room. In the noisy excitement of the classroom, Christi's
quiet stance
is noticeable.
We begin our first day of class. I notice that Christi is quite knowledgeable about the Macintosh and she quietly helps her classmates throughout the day. When class is over, she speaks to me in a barely audible voice.
"I have a Mac and a modem at home. But my modem isn't hooked up. Do you think you could fix it?"
"Of course," I reply with a smile, "You just name the day!"
The dance begins.
Christi and I have each been in classrooms a long time--Christi as a
student
and I, first as a student, and now as a teacher. We have learned the
unwritten
rules of school; we have learned well how a female is "supposed" to
behave.
We are two female dancers who know the dance so well that we don't
need the
(often male) choreographer to help us with the steps. We are so
practiced, we
do them without thinking. We move to the beat of an invisible tune.
All girls
know the words to this tune.
The refrain goes like this:
Good girls are nice
Good girls are kind
Good girls help out
Good girls don't pout.
I set the stage for the dance to begin:
| Alice | June 14, 1994 | Thanks for the help. I couldn't "make it" without your help. |
| Alice | June 21, 1994 | I really enjoy having you as a student. |
We build trust in one another. Christi enters the dance and together we negotiate the steps--smoothly--because we know this dance deep within our souls:
| Alice | October 2, 1994 | Please remind me to bring MacUSA to school so you can show some other kids how to use it. |
| Christi | October 5, 1994 | Don't forget to bring MacUSA today. |
| Christi | October 5, 1994 | I'm going to make a sign for your
door.
What do you want it to say? |
| Alice | October 5, 1994 | It was nice of you to show Mandy how to use MacUSA. You decide what my sign should say. |
| Alice | October 6, 1994 | Thanks for being such a good
helper to your
classmates. I really appreciate your helpfulness. |
| Christi | October 10, 1994 | I will bring the disk with your sign on Tuesday! |
| Christi | October 11, 1994 | On the disk, my sign is named 'My Room' and your signed is named 'Alice'. |
| Alice | October 11, 1994 | Thanks for letting me know the titles of our
signs. Do you want to help me edit the newsletter on Thursday afternoon? |
| Christi | October 12, 1994 | I would love to help |
| Alice | October 13, 1994 | I'm glad you'd love to help. I'll count on you for after class-till about 3! |
| Alice | October 14, 1994 | Thanks for your help yesterday afternoon. We finished our work just in time! Thanks for being a great member of our Workshop!!!!! |
And then we know the end of the dance is near.
| Christi | October 14, 1994 | I will miss you! |
| Alice | October 14, 1994 | Please keep in touch by email. I will miss you, too! |
Profile Three
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Red-headed, bright-eyed Andy strolls into the computer lab with a smugness which the other children do not possess. He can afford the luxury of walking slowly while the other children rush because he knows he can take any computer he wants; Andy is a leader in the group--and what he wants, he gets. Class begins. All the children are reading and answering their mail. The room is quiet; the children and I are intent on our mail.
"Alice, I need help!" Andy's loud voice startles us.
"I'm reading my mail, Andy, I'm sure you can solve your problems on your own."
"No I can't. I'm stuck in some weird place; I don't know how to get out."
"I probably don't know how to get out either. I'd just have to keep trying different things 'till I got out. Why don't you try that strategy?"
Andy eventually figures out his difficulty and begins answering his mail. I receive the following note:
June 10, 1994 I am sending mail without you helping. I'm sending some stuf about me to you... And I reply:
June 11, 1994 Thanks for sending me a message. I was very proud of all you did on your own without my help.
About 30 minutes later, I am giving a demonstration of how to use Veronica to search the Internet. I ask for ideas on topics the class might like to search for. Andy jumps out of his seat, wildly waving his hand. When I call on Janet, he loudly calls out, "Chess, lets look up chess." The other boys immediately echo his request and the girls silently nod their assent.
Andy continues his domination of the classroom. He calls out, demands
help,
and acts irresponsibly. He has learned over the years that he can
engage in
this kind of behavior: Bright boys can act in ways which would never
be considered
appropriate if the actors were slower boys or any girl. I determine
that I should
discuss this issue with him and send him a lengthy email message about
three
days later:
You have a real knack with the computer. You could be a real leader in our class, but right now you're choosing NOT TO BE.Wouldn't it feel really good to settle down, learn alot, and then help your classmates if they need it. You catch on really quickly and I could benefit from having a good assistant. It doesn't help you or the class when you act silly, talk out and need me to help you.
Write back and let me know what you think.
Alice
I receive no response, but I do notice some changes in his willingness to try things on his own. He also voluntarily helps others when they ask for help. The following week I compliment him in several messages:
| June 17, 1994 |
I was very happy to see your improved attitude and behavior. |
| June 21, 1994
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Thanks for having a more serious attitude in class. I appreciate it and it seems you are learning alot more. Do you agree? |
Andy and I learn to coexist. We both admire the other for our curiosity and love of learning. I learn how to channel some of his energy in productive ways and how to let the rest go with a boys-will-be-boys shrug of my shoulders. Andy learns that I will not enable his "I need help" behavior and that he can do well without help. As teachers and students, we have miles to go in our pursuit of an ungendered classroom, but Andy and I accomplished the first inch- and we both felt like that was quite an achievement.
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