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Life Goes
On
Using the
Insights
and Reflections of Sarah Delany to Help Teens Deal
with Loss
By Rose Reissman
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Online chats help students share their
own stories
of loss and survival in response to quotations from a
survivors
memoir. Find out how to adapt other popular books for your
classroom.
Students also can create their own extension
activities.
Further
Classroom Applications
of Contemporary Books
My
classroom community of readers and writers is continually
challenged,
captivated, and connected to contemporary books and
formats that
have proven appeal to the book-buying public. Why? Because
as an
adult reader for pleasure and information myself, I share
my own
book discoveries with my students in the same way I share
them with
others in my converging literacy communities.
Therefore,
when I browse at an online bookstore, order Tuesdays
with Morrie,
and read it in one sitting, I immediately order it for at
least
seven sensitive souls in my contemporary family book
circle and
read selections from it to my classes. Ditto,
Angelas Ashes.
This best seller and childhood memoir of former teacher
Frank McCourt
is inherently appropriate for teacherstudent
sharing, because
it is about a teacherstudent relationship over time.
Another
strategy to identify choices certain to captivate students
is to
choose those that center on family or friendship
relationships.
Kernels of these best-sellers can be shared with the
students in
the form of quotations/excerpts to prompt responses about
student,
family, or friendship experiences. These can generate
multigenerational,
multimedia dual journals (mothers/daughters, fathers/sons,
grandparents/grandchildren,
boys/girls, online electronic galleries, etc.).
Titles
that surface on the best-seller list close to
Mothers Day
and Fathers Day are perfect for classroom use. These
often
are books filled with personal testimonials, photographs,
and quotes
about family relationships. Because of their usually lush
designs
and broad spectrum of images and words, they often act as
perfect
catalysts and models for student discussion and writing.
Catch crossover
children/young adult works that not only surface on
best-seller
lists but rise to the top and linger! Dr. Seusss
Oh, The
Places Youll Go, which I personally was never
enamored
of, appears on the best-seller list almost every spring.
As a result,
my students read it aloud. It inspired them to produce
their own
literally resonating multimedia presentations
detailing
their own life travails and triumphs. They also created a
Web page
with comments from older siblings who enjoyed the book.
(Note.
This Web page is no longer available for viewing.)
Author
J.K. Rowlings Harry Potter series (which will be
made into
a film by Steven Spielberg) immediately invites students
to generate
their own hypotheses as to why this young adult
authors work
fascinates adults and the secret of its crossover sequel
allure.
They can check out their hypotheses through online surveys
and e-mail
messages and visit Rowling on the Scholastic Web site (www.scholastic.com).
A Web page, guest book, book-specific trivia, and
retellings of
the Potter series from different perspectives can be
potential online
extension activities.
The
hard-cover best-seller list often serves as a preview of
future
movie blockbusters and television features/miniseries. The
paperback
best-sellers are usually reissues of these hard-cover
titles to
cash in on their feature film release and/or
television
sweeps showings. Ironically, a few of the paperback best
sellers
are even novelizations of successful film
scripts! All
of these best-seller categories offer rich student
storyboarding
and multimedia reading, writing, viewing, and listening
opportunities,
as students can prepare and predict screen treatments of
these works
or create a novelization of a successful film script or
series with
the embellishment of desktop publishing. And, students can
watch
the movies after their releases and compare the original
works,
their predictions of the screen treatments, and the actual
screen
treatments, Who knows, a potential William Kotzwinkle (the
creator
of the novelization of E.T.) or Oliver Stone may be
inspired
by these projects!
Speaking
of inspiration, popular series such as Chicken Soup For
The Soul,
Having My Say, or On My Own, as well as
biographies
of people who have overcome tremendous odds to triumph in
their
personal and professional lives, can be used to comfort
and inspire
students. They can be prompted to share their own life
affirming
experiences using the same formats. As a real-life bonus,
students
can share these experiences with the publishers of these
series
online for potential inclusion in future works.
No
discussion of contemporary book/classroom ties would be
complete
without a click to the online concept
bookshelf. Interactive,
blank journals (e.g., Grandmother Remembers,
Babys
First Five Years, Writers Notebook, My
Life)
can serve as templates for student lifelong writing.
Adult, young
adult, and childrens formats are readily usable and
easily
assigned to a certain grade or grade range. Minibooks,
letters,
stories, postcard collections, and oversized books can
inspire similar
student formats and designs. Multimedia and desktop
publishing capacities
can support a concrete, classroom, virtual training ground
for students
in book marketing and design. Harry Abrams, publishing,
here they
come!
Whatever
grade you teach, up grade your students to the
books
for adults. Excerpts, quotations, concepts, and themes
derived from
these works can ensure that the circle of readers,
writers, and
book-centered talkers is full of todays classroom
learners.
Student-Generated Extension
Activities: On My Own
- Buy
up a batch of these books. Distribute them to
bereavement societies
and give a supply to hospital cancer wards so that
when families
leave after a loss, they have something to begin to
help them.
- Give
out quotation sheets with some explanation about
Sadies
and Bessies lives to our families and those of
the recently
deceased. Some funeral homes, neighborhood churches,
and community
centers might be willing to give out the quotation
sheets.
- Encourage
readers to write to Sadie, so she will realize how
important
and helpful her feelings on paper are in supporting
others who
deal with loss.
- Write
to Sadie on our own to tell her about how we
didnt guess
how old she was or who she had lost. Tell her about
our project.
- Ask
the guidance counselors at our school to give out or
use the
book or quotations to help students here deal with
death and
dying. Almost everybody has lost someone
recently.
Visit
www.harpercollins.com for
more information about Sadie and Bessie Delanys books. And, read
the quotes
I used to inspire my students in this project.
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Dr. Rose Reissman (maskin@martnet.com),
L&Ls language arts editor, is
currently president
of the Association of Computer Educators, New York;
R&D
consultant for FutureKids Technology Literacy
Training Center;
president of the NYCATE; educational consultant for
the museum
of the City of New York; and educational language
arts standards
consultant for CityLore/Multimedia Cultural Resource
Center.
She has developed media and technology courses for
the reading
and writing masters program at Manhattanville
College.
Contact her at 110 Seaman Ave., 5C, New York, NY
10034.
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Quotes
From
Delany, S. L., & Hearth, A. H. (1997). On my own at
107:
Reflections on life without Bessie. New York:
HarperCollins.
p.
4 time alone to think...spoke quietly to Bessie
spoke to Bessie...crocus
plants peeking through the snow...
p.
6 This being alone is hard. For the first time in my
life,
I dont have you by my side...its like Im
just
learning how to walk. ...youre not there
to do
these things with me.
p.
12 I started wearing one of your suitcoats -- you
know, the
gray one you loved so much. It made me feel good, having
it wrapped
around me. its harder to be the one left
behind
than the one doing the dyin.
p.
18 Ive been your other half... Its like
a married
couple. You kind of merge into one person after a
while.
p.
19 Im still receiving mail for you...and it
always makes
me feel a little bad.
p.
20 Im learning that I am a separate human
being. For
the first time in my life, Im learning that.
p.
21 Stop talking about it -- do it now. The world is
not going
to wait for you.
p.
24 The Spring reminded me, life goes on.
p.
27 If you had really wanted to, you would have kept
going.
You wouldnt have left me here alone.
p.
33 Sometimes I wake in the middle of the night
calling your
name.
p.
40 You were a part of my life since I was two years
old. I
dont remember life without you. I can see your face
in every
memory from my own childhood...Yes, you were always there.
And now
youre gone.
p.
63 Im so grateful for each and everyday of
your life.
You used your time well.
p.
6667 You can never really prepare for
something like
this [the death of a loved one] in part because I
guess
you dont want to believe it is happening and in part
because
it never happens the way you think it is going to
happen.
p.
69 Theyve made dying a lot harder these
days.
p.
73 Theres a lot of sorrow, but theres a
lot of
happiness, too.
p.
74 You can worry yourself to death about something
awful happening,
and its a big waste of time. Maybe
Im
stronger than I thought I was.
p.
88 I put your picture [on the dresser] ...
so that
its the last thing I see at night and the first
thing I see
when I wake up.
p.
96 It also bothers me when things happen, like
somebody is
born or dies, and youre not here to share it.
p.
97 Sometimes theres events in the news, like
elections
and things, that make me very much aware that you are not
here.
You would have commented on them, had an opinion.
p.
99 Now Im learning how to make it on my
own.
p.
105 Im learning that I have to speak up. I
used to let
you speak for both of us.
p.
114 ... a thought of natures cycle of life,
death, and
returning life. She found peace and beauty in the
knowledge that
...[the deceaseds] flowers would be reborn
next year.
p.
124 Keeping busy is as important as having
companionship.
... Its having a sense of purpose. A reason to get
up every
morning...
p.
124125 I just retell our stories to the ...
relatives
and friends... I think theyll remember us, and our
stories,
long after were both gone.
p.
125 Im finally able ... [to] talk
about you...
I like to tell stories about you. For a while I
couldnt talk
about you, but now I can. It makes me feel good. Its
like
having you here beside me again.
p.
134 it occurs to me that I did get over Mamas
death!...
p.
136 I have your permission to keep on living and try
to be
happy.
p.
143 Somewhere along the line I made up my mind
Im going
to live... I think Im going to be all right.
p.
144 I believe its up to each person to make
the best
out of life, to keep trying no matter what. A lot of it is
how you
look at it. A lot of it is attitude. ... Dont worry
about
me, ... child, Ive got plans.
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